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Mon Oct 19, 2009 2:06pm EDT
By Patricia Reaney
NEW YORK (Reuters) - It may not seem like it when commuters are shouting down their cell phones to the dismay of other passengers but most Americans believe there are unspoken rules about mobile phone etiquette.
Checking emails, sending text messages and making telephone calls while in the company of others are definite breeches of mobile manners.
Texting during a date is also strictly forbidden.
But most people questioned in an online poll said they would not be offended if they received an electronic thank you, instead of a written note and 75 percent had no objections to anyone using laptops, netbooks and cell phones in the bathroom.
"Etiquette is first and foremost a question of awareness," said author and etiquette expert Anna Post.
But she described the results of the Harris Interactive poll commissioned by Intel as "pretty surprising statistics."
Sixty-two percent of the 2,625 adults who took part in the survey agreed that cell phones, laptops, netbooks and other electronic devices are part of daily life.
Fifty-five percent also thought the demands of business mean people must stay connected, even if it involves taking a laptop on a holiday or answering a cell phone during a meal.
But despite the need to be constantly connected and the general acceptance of the technology, people were more sensitive about technology abuses during holiday and religious activities.
Nearly 90 percent of Americans think cell phone use is unacceptable during a religious service and 30 percent admitted they would be offended if they received an online gift wish.
But more than half revealed that they intended to send an electronic greeting card, instead of a traditional one.
"These are issues about common sense," said Dr Genevieve Bell, an ethnographer and director of Intel's User Experience Group, adding that the social rules of when and how it is appropriate to use the technology are still being formed.
Mobile phone etiquette also differs according to varying regions of the world.
Post is convinced that mobile technology etiquette will become increasingly relevant, particularly at traditional gatherings, and it will become more challenging to determine what is appropriate and what is not.
But she did draw the line with thank you cards.
"I stand by the handwritten thank you note," she said.
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I feel it is completely unacceptable to talk on your cell phone in public restrooms.
1I'm feelin you on that one. People stay on their cell phones too much these days.
2I still do not own one . we have a tracphone for emergency purposes.
375 percent had no objections to anyone using laptops, netbooks and cell phones in the bathroom.
That brings funny, precarious thoughts to my mind.
4This might be TMI but I have NEVER had a bathroom issue that took long enough for me to think "gee I wish I had my laptop/phone/netbook to pass the time"
5My friend plays Bejeweled on his cell phone while on the toilet.
6don't ever touch his cell phone.
7
I know, right!
8I would call it Poo-jeweled from then on.
9I don't even know what Bejeweled is!
10oh its sooo addictive.
11Or BePooweled.
12Actually, it's not the phone he uses currently. It's his old cell phone.
So some people keep newspapers or magazines in their bathroom, he keeps an old cell phone.
13I hate people who talk while in the bathroom, driving, at the movies, in a restaraunt, while walking (cause they don't pay attention), in a class, while grocery shopping, hell while shopping anywhere, and while having sex. Yes I called someone and they answered the phone in the middle of sex.
14OH MY GOD!!! that is SOOOO gross!!
must have been some pretty bad sex....
but yea, i hate when you're talking to someone and then you hear the flush.... uhhh thanks for that.
15I have to admit I have talked on the phone while I tinkled BUT only to my sister, its kind of our little joke.
16not in public though, right?
17no amy never. just at home!
18See - I don't take issue with that. It's the public restroom thing that reaaallly gets under my skin.
19I don't like to spend any longer than necessary in public restrooms, so I don't see how I would have time to use the phone let alone a computer.
20I'm wondering if they mean that people are talking on the phone while they're actually using the public restroom or if they mean that people are, say, ducking in to the restroom to use the phone in order to get away from noise or because it's an important call, but it would be rude to take it at the table. I know I've ducked into the restroom to take a quick call at a crowded bar before.
21That's understandable Lil. I do that too when I can't hear the other person
22that's fine, just don't use a perfectly good stall for your convo
23... and when someone else (who happens to have a shy bladder) is trying to pee in the stall next to you.
24omg i hate it when people use the stall right next to you when there are other open stalls. the ladies in my office building do not understand that unwritten rule!
25Oh I hate that too! Why the need to be so damn close?!
26Awww Amy, you have a shy bladder too?
27Yes! Especially when someone is sitting next to me talking on their phone! Or when they're sitting there with an equally shy bladder and no one can pee.
I know.. I know... TMI.
28hahaha me too amy, me too
29Yeah the worst is when there are multiple shy bladders just sitting there waiting for the first drip to drop...
30haha sometimes i just leave in that case and come back in five minutes!
31I'm just glad women get private, individual stalls. I'd hate to have to pee in a urinal.
32I dont have a shy bladder at all. but then again I dont have a shy anything about me!
33which stall do you guys choose?
i always choose the first one because i read once that statistically its the cleanest (gets used the least often and is most likely cleaned first).
34I like to choose the wheelchair accessible stalls!
35I usually choose the first one, too, haus.
Amy, any reason?
36Well, at my work, for instance, the doors open outward instead of inward. I don't know why, but I prefer that!
37Interesting.
I actually always choose the wheelchair accessible stall at work, too. There are small gaps where the stalls come together and it doesn't affect that stall. Also, there is a sink and mirror in that stall and I like that. I don't choose it elsewhere unless it's the only stall available. Ever since my mother started walking with a cane and needs to use that stall on her bad days (she has trouble getting up without the handles), I've tried to be more conscious about it. I still do it at work, though!
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