At tonight's BET Awards, CNN's Don Lemon attempted to interview Joe Jackson about the death of his son. Jackson answered Lemon's questions with abrupt, detached answers, passed the mic to his spokesperson and attorney, and then promoted his record company.
Jackson's answers were strange right off the bat: Lemon asks him how he's doing, and Jackson responds, "great, I'm doing pretty good," which seems like a peculiar thing to say after one has just lost one's son. He then switches gears and says, "It has been really tough. Remember, we just lost the biggest star in the world." Which also struck me as strange, as it seemed like a fairly detached way of phrasing things.
I have wondered over the past few days how the public (and the press) would handle Joe Jackson; every article coming out about Michael's life and death does not hide the fact that his father was a brutal disciplinarian, and that Michael's childhood was an abusive one. Yet at the same time, the press is, understandably, running to Jackson's parents to express their condolences and obtain some insight on their son and the impact of his loss. Joe Jackson has been painted, over the last 48 hours, as the horrifically abusive father and the grieving father: the person who showed up on the red carpet tonight seemed to be a distant father. Whether that is the result of shock or grief or genuine detachment, one can not say, but the one consistent part of his behavior, the art of promotion, seems to be intact:
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What a great dad. Meanwhile, Janet Jackson was inside with some words to say. The first two minutes are of Janet, the rest is a BET tribute, so you don't have to watch the entire thing.
Obviously a more natural way to behave when a member of your family has just passed away:
Make Up For Ever
O'Neill
Prada
Oh Janet!
1Joe Jackson's behavior doesn't surprise me at all. Everything I have ever heard about him as a father has been very negative. A part of him probably saw dollar signs at his son's passing. Sad.
Janet made me cry. That was a sad moment.
2Well all I can say is particular members of this family are known for their eccentricities and strange nature Joe included. It could also be a combination of that and shock and some people just shut down emotionally.
That's the way I was when my parents passed completely calm and solid for every one else to lean on. Then days after their respective funerals I let me self vent and mourn their loss.
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You could feel Janet's anguish. I hope they are all able to get through this rough time. I've
never had a sibling pass, but my fiance's brother passed away a few years ago completely unexpected. It is horrendous. My thoughts are with the Jackson family.
4janet made me cry too...so sad
5Joe Jackson is digusting.
When the lawyer came out and said what he said it came off almost like they are going to try to sue the doc. I wouldn't put it past Joe...
Im so glad Janet came out and said what she said! You could feel the pain..I cried too.
6I cried for the first time about this whole mess watching Janet.
Joe's an idiot when it comes to anything except for being a manager to an artist. The man to my knowledge has always been off emotionally so expecting to openly weep for his son is just futile. The rest of the family is hurting and Joe is being sorry old Joe.
7I did too Symphonee.
It just blew me away to watch that video of Joe. And how obviously out of touch he was with his son was horrifying.
8He tried doing some damage control with Al Sharpton today but it just made it worse...
9Dammit Janet!
Joe Jackson will obviously never ever change. Asshat.
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10"If there is glory in miracles, it's that they're reversible"
Rhetorical pondering....if there is "White Trash...couldn't there also be Black Trash?" If so...Joe Jackson is in that heep.
11How about just TRASH?
12If anyone has ever wondered why Michael grew and acted the way he did and treated him self the way he did as an adult all you have to do is look at Joe and Michael childhood.
13It is going to be interesting. The public will finally learn things about Michael that a few knew but were sworn to secrecy. Michael was a tortured man. He was never allowed to have a real life...the price of being famous.
I understood why he tried so hard to keep his children's identities/faces private for as long as possible as it allowed them to go places and do normal things without him.
Now I see their lives are being placed under the same microscope--and I am fearful for them. In some ways it would be better if they were given new names, identities, and moved to some place remote so they can have some form of normalcy in their lives.
Unfortunately they will become the center piece in a tug-of-war, nobody really considering what is best for them, and at the mercy of those which tormented Michael.
The whole issue of him with kids...many don't understand that in many ways Michael never emotionally grew up--a kid trapped in an adult's body--with predators constantly surrounding him to take advantage of this "kid" who was well-intentioned but rarely if ever understood.
14I agree with everything you said, cheeky.
15Yeah I never understood the criticism about masking his children. It was a no brainer to me and scary that we've become that desensitized to the paparazzi and the mental and emotional strain they place on celebrities every day.
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